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How to stop the Brain Drain

April 4, 2016 By Julian Kaufmann

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There is nothing good or bad but thinking makes it so – William Shakespeare

Did you know that the human brain is about 2% of our total body mass yet it accounts for about 20% of our body’s energy requirements[i]⁠?

That’s right. Pound for pound, our brains are energy hogs that consume much more energy (calories are just another measure of energy) on a relative mass basis than our other organs do.

Of course our brains are the key, super-computer that regulates everything we do and experience, much of which we are not aware of. It makes sense that our cognitive capabilities require more calories than otherwise. Unfortunately this unawareness and the misdirected power of our mind can rob us of energy that we could instead be using to direct towards completing our life’s work.

Recall energy is the ability to do work. When energy is wasted it is no longer available to do work.

In some ways an unattended mind can be like leaving a window open in your home while heating or cooling the home. The result of the open window is that the home’s HVAC system has to work harder to overcome the drain in conditioned air that is flowing out of the home through the open window. If we are not careful and pay attention to our brains and how they are thinking, we are letting precious energy go to waste.

In his book The Power of Now, Eckert Tolle states, “Your mind is an instrument, a tool. It is there to be used for a specific task, and when the task is completed, you lay it down. As it is, I would say about 80 to 90 percent of most people’s thinking is not only repetitive and useless, but because of its dysfunctional and often negative nature, much of it is also harmful. Observe your mind and you will find this to be true. It causes a serious leakage of vital energy[ii]⁠1.”

To solve a problem with an organization, you gotta start at the top.–unknown

Awareness of a problem or situation is the first step in order to correct it.

Becoming aware of the nature and quality of our thoughts is a great step to taking control of your executive office and at the same time allowing you the opportunity to plug any leaks.

Meditation or other mindfulness practices are a good way to go within and simply observe your thoughts. My prior  post 7-Minutes in Heaven provides additional benefits of meditation and a simple 7-minute routine for calming your brain. If you are not already meditating please try it and let me know. If you already have a practice, I would love to hear more about works for you.

Like removing a boiling pan of water from a heat source, when we meditate we allow our brains to calm down and reach a more peaceful state that does not require as much energy to maintain.

Energy and frequency are directly related. That is as the frequency of an object increases so does the energy required to keep the object vibrating at that speed.

When we are worried or anxious our brave waves speed up – the frequency of our brain increases. Conversely when we meditate or rest, our brains operate at much lower frequencies than when we are anxious or worried. This conserves mental energy and allows our minds to reset and return towards a state of equanimity.

Shut out the physical world. Control the mind. Then you will become free. –The Bhagavad Gita

NAMASTE

Julian

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[i] Drubach, Daniel. The Brain Explained. New Jersey: Prentice-Hall, 2000.

[ii] Tolle, Eckhart (2009-03-25). The Power of Now (pp. 21-22). New World Library. Kindle Edition.

 

Filed Under: awareness, Meditation, Uncategorized

Doubting Thomas and Judgmental Julian

March 28, 2016 By Julian Kaufmann

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“Don’t be such a doubting Thomas.”

As a child I often heard that expression but never really knew its origin and deeper meaning until much later in my life. My grandmother would sometimes say this to me to help boost my confidence in times of self-doubt. She would exclaim, ”Believe in yourself and what you can do. Don’t be such a doubting Thomas.” I am grateful for her love and support. She helped instilled in me a quite confidence and a faith in my ultimate power when I expressed doubts in myself.

In case you’re not familiar of the story of Thomas and his doubts, it is told in the Bible. Thomas was a disciple who at times was rather reluctant follower of Jesus. After witnessing Jesus die, Thomas refused to believe the other disciples who told him of his resurrection. Thomas said he would only believe if he could touch Jesus and put his fingers through the holes in Jesus; body that came from his crucifixion. Later in the story, Jesus finds Thomas in a room after entering through a locked door and had Thomas put his hands into his side and told him to “Stop doubting and believe.” Thomas exclaims “My lord and my God.” Jesus then tells Thomas, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.”

“Cause I gotta have faith” –George Michael

Like Thomas I sometimes need to see things in order to believe.

I rationalize this empirical need of mind by stating that I am a man and men are supposed to be logical and less feeling. (The corollary – women are supposed to be more feeling). Further strengthening my logical muscle, I studied and practiced electrical engineering. The stereotype of an engineer is a geeky, almost cyborg like analyzing problem solving machine. Lastly I came of age in the late 1980’s, the era of conspicuous consumption. Status and the pursuit and attainment of wealth were the names of the game. Life was a competition and money the score.

While the logical part of my brain helped me navigate certain challenges of life, it is the intuitive faith based aspects that allow me to thrive. If you know my story, you know I eventually returned home to God not solely relying on my mind. Today I acknowledge the wonderful, dual-nature of our both our minds and bodies. It was not an easy journey for me but one that I hope bysharing with you makes your travels easier.

We need to have faith and believe without seeing. This is one of the many paradoxes we have in this life. Once I let go of my need to know and control everything, life became so much freer. Let Go Let if Flow was born out of that realization of faith. If you would like to learn more about how to regulate Flow in your life, please sign up for my Free Course – Flow 101

Critical Thinking vs. Thinking Critically

The name Thomas is derived from a Greek-word meaning twin.

Our minds are like conjoined twins – both rational and intuitive inhabiting the same space. We are guided by unconscious thoughts and motivations, yet have the ability to exercise free will and create the life

Our reptile brain is designed to keep us safe and to ultimately ensure that our species lives on. As a result of this we have pre-loaded, negative bias in which we place more importance on negative information than positive information.

We are hardwired to make judgments and place more value to negative information.

The first step to making any improvement is to first acknowledge and be aware of the condition.

The practice of meditation is a good way to observe the quality and quantity of your thoughts. Once you realize that you are not your thoughts you can simply observe the nature of them and in the process you nurture a calmness and equanimity.

There goes the judge

As for being judgmental, I found Will Bowen’s  A Complaint Free World: How to Stop Complaining and Start Enjoying the Life You Always Wanted and his 21-day challenge to be an effective way to become aware of the nature of your thoughts. Bowen, a former unity minister wrote the book to help his congregation and the book went on to be a phenomenon. Part of the book is to practice going 21-days without complaining. You measure your progress by wearing a purple bracelet on your wrist and each time you complain, the progress resets and you transfer the purple bracelet over to the other wrist. It sounds simple, but the 21-day challenge was and is still difficult for me. Bowen states, “Complaining never attracts what you want; it perpetuates what you do not want.” Adding that the way to prosperity is to be grateful for what we currently have and that we can’t complain and be grateful at the same time.

Thank you! Amen.

Filed Under: Acceptance, complaining, grateful, judgment

7-Minutes in Heaven – keys to the kingdom

March 21, 2016 By Julian Kaufmann

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When you were a kid did you ever play the game 7-minutes in Heaven?

If you don’t know about the game it is one in which two people, in my day a boy and a girl, go into a closet and spend 7-minutes “getting to know each other.”

While the two of you were in the closet someone on the outside was a timekeeper and was responsible for letting you know when your time was up with your closet-mate and when it was time for you to leave.

The 7-minutes in the closet usually consisted of some heavy petting, kissing and hugging etc., at least that is the way we played it. Sometimes you might just talk with the other person if there was no chemistry or neither one had a strong enough urge to make the first move.

There was something very liberating about being confined in a dark closet for me back then. I was aware that I could not be seen so I was less self-conscious about how awkward I was actually feeling. Closing the closet door disconnected me from my ego and allowed me to be freer.

Speaking of closing doors and disconnecting from your ego, the Bible says:

But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen – Matthew 6:6

Prayer is a sacred time for connecting with God and I find shutting myself off from the outside world often facilitates it. When I pray I close the door to the outside world and find refuge in the stillness.

Unfortunately spending time alone with your thoughts in a quite place can be a scary thing for some of us. As a result many people try to distract themselves constantly to avoid their own closet of silence.

Like prayer, meditation encourages us to disconnect from the outside world and enter a place a peace.

Benefits of meditation [i]include:

  • Reducing Stress
  • Improving concentration
  • Encouraging a healthy lifestyle
  • Increasing self-awareness
  • Increasing happiness
  • Increasing acceptance
  • Slowing aging

I confess that meditation is a difficult practice for me but one that has improved the quality of my life. Currently I set a countdown timer for 7-minutes and let go of my thoughts and focus on my breath.

Hence the new adult version of the 7-minutes in heaven game is played whenever and wherever you can close the door to the outside world and instead spend some quality time with you and your thoughts.

Please try it out and let me know what you think. Also try out the METTA mediation technique for more of a group experience –  Metta Mondays

Meanwhile enjoy the silence!

[i] Holmes, Lindsay. “8 Ways Meditation Can Improve Your Life.” The Huffington Post. TheHuffingtonPost.com, n.d. Web. 21 Mar. 2016.

 

 

Filed Under: Acceptance, Daily Habbits, Meditation

Metta Not Manic Mondays

March 14, 2016 By Julian Kaufmann

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As we adjust to daylight savings time, this first Monday following the clock adjustment can be hard on us and those around us.  The case of the “Mondays” can be especially pronounced.

With that in mind, we can use the practice of metta mediation to lessen our potential suffering by instead cultivating awareness of ourselves and all living beings.

The following video provides additional information on the practice:

I apologize for the quality of the video and realize it is out of focus.

I decided to leave it in conveying the effect of being being bleary eyed which many of you might be.

The pictures and presentation can be downloaded by clicking below

Metta Pictures

Metta Presentation

If you would like to learn more about how to better manage your energy, please sign up for my free course – Flow 101

https://juliankaufmann.com/flow-landing-page1/

Namaste – Julian

 

 

Filed Under: Daily Habbits, Meditation, Optimal Living

Spring Cleaning

March 7, 2016 By Julian Kaufmann

Hope springs eternal in the human breast;
Man never is, but always to be blessed:
The soul, uneasy and confined from home,
Rests and expatiates in a life to come.
– Alexander Pope, An Essay on Man

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Here in North Carolina, Spring is in the air and its ACC basketball tournament time.

Just like football is a harbinger of  Fall, the roundball is so for Spring – March Madness, baby.

After enduring many cold dark days and nights it is liberating to experience the freshness of new life as nature comes alive. People start to  spend more time outdoors and the world seems new because in so many ways it is.

Besides the NCAA basketball tournament, another rite of Spring is Spring Cleaning.  This is when people open up their homes to fresh air and perform a variety of maintenance activities to repair things from the passing winter and to ready the home for the coming Summer season.

In the spirit of preparing for the season I wanted to give you  a little PDF taken from the Flow 101 Course that is now underway. Please click the link below:

Cleaning the Connection

This has some helpful tips that can be used anytime to cleanup your connection with the infinite power that flows through the universe and you.

It is spring again. The earth is like a child that knows poems by heart.
― Rainer Maria Rilke

p.s. – If you would like to learn more about this Free Course – Flow 101 please go to:

https://juliankaufmann.com/sales-page-2/

 

Filed Under: Flow, God

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